It is Absolutly Normal to Explore and Accept your Bi Curious side

And this disbelief in bisexuality often leads to its general lack of acceptance. The doubts are especially and, perhaps unexpectedly, pronounced among gay people, many of whom have struggled with having their sexual orientation acknowledged and respected. It's a persistent misconception about people who self-identify as bisexual. Unable to easily categorize men and women who fall in love and have romantic relationships regardless of a partner's gender, society often dismissively labels them as confused straight to gay sex, fence-straddling, promiscuous cheaters incapable of monogamy.

Bisexual people can experience discrimination from both straight and gay communities. For example, some heterosexual people may assume a bisexual person is straight but just ‘experimenting’ with bi gay sex, while some homosexual people may assume the person is gay but still having heterosexual relationships because they are afraid of 'coming out' or accepting their gay sexual orientation. 

A person who is bisexual can feel social pressure to choose which gender they prefer. Some people may be hesitant to admit to bisexual feelings or experiences because of fear of prejudice from family, friends, and the wider community. Compared with gay men and lesbians, bisexuals have a different perspective on their sexual orientation and a distinct set of experiences, according to a 2013 Pew Research Center survey of nearly 1,200 lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender adults. Bisexuals are much less likely than gay men and lesbians to say that their sexual orientation is an important part of who they are as some have Bisexual Cuckold fetishes. Only 20% of bisexuals say being bisexual is extremely or very important to their overall identity. The shares of gay men (48%) and lesbians (50%) who say the same about their sexual orientations are much higher. (Due to the small number of transgender adults in the survey, it’s not possible to break out their responses. However, they are included in the total LGBT shares reported here.)

Large majorities of LGBT adults and the general public agree that love, companionship, and making a lifelong commitment are very important reasons to marry and not just have Bisexual Threesomes. However, LGBT survey respondents are twice as likely as those in the general public to say that obtaining legal rights and benefits is also a very important reason to marry (46% versus 23%). And the general public is more likely than LGBT respondents to say that having children is a very important reason to marry (49% versus 28%). One way in which bisexuals are similar to gay men and lesbians is in their own journey to self-awareness about their sexual orientation.

The survey asked LGBT respondents at what point in their life they had first thought they might be lesbian, gay, bisexual or transgender; at what age they knew for sure; and at what age they first told someone about their sexual orientation. Bisexuals experienced these milestones at nearly the same ages as lesbians and gay men. The median age when bisexuals report first thinking that they might be bisexual is 13. The median age at which they say they knew for sure that they were bisexual is 17, and they were a median age of 20 when they first told someone about their sexual orientation.

What I learned from Vintage Erotica and Mainstream Erotica

I forget exactly how I first stumbled upon Vintage Porn, an online compendium of vintage smut. But soon after digging around the landing page I found myself enraptured by a humorous erotic scene, from 1970s France.

The silent short opens with a small mustachioed man just waking from a nap, only to find his unruly erection has jumped right off his body and is wiggling itself antagonistically in his direction. A chase ensues, and eventually the tomfoolery comes to an end with Mr. Big Cock finding his prized part, giving it a small kiss, and then sticking it through a hole to be welcomed home by a sensual looking cow.

It’s a weird, perverse, delightful little video that, while not quite mentally or physically arousing, somehow captures the hijinks of a man who thinks, well, with his dick.

To me, the film seemed more self-deprecating, open to the fumbling failures of heterosexual masculinity, than contemporary porn. More playful, and surely more surreal. I continued to poke around the site and go through Classic Porn Videos.

In the 1970s short “She Cums From Outer Space,” a babely humanoid alien wearing nothing but a giant triangle zaps into the home of a young earthling, who has clearly had it up to here with the Sex Education for Young People book on his lap. “Did you float out of some disco or something?” he asks, before she invites him to experience her “out of this world" body. The bow-chicka-bow-wow background music, low-fi production and kitschy-yet-futuristic aesthetic conjure a mixture of nostalgia and arousal that’s absurd and exotic.

I’ve never been a huge fan of Swinger porn, opting instead to fast forward to my favorite sexy scenes on Netflix or peruse softcore erotic Tumblrs. And after spending time with Delta of Venus, I couldn’t help but ask myself: Is good porn, like good wine, best served super old? Is vintage erotica the holy grail of sexual representation? Or was I simply fetishizing these historical gems -- enchanted by the same sepia tone of an Instagram filter or Lana Del Rey music video?

In the meantime, I also looked at Hotwife Porn Videos. My first reaction was, well, quite grossed out. The first video that popped up, via an advertisement plastered across the screen, bore the title “Small, Tiny, Teens Gettin’ F**ked!” Overlooking the unnecessary comma in the headline, I clicked, and was greeted by, yes, both small and tiny young women wearing nothing but the thick-framed “hip nerd” glasses you’d likely encounter at a Librarians-and-Barbarians-themed frat party. A visual pastiche, if you will, of penetrative and oral sex ensues, clearly amping up the innocence, inexperience and gag reflexes of the women.